rule of thumb
My man told me that couple of young guys in his bay have been chatting with him about the problems they are facing with their girlfriends back home.
ryan: "well, in our household, we have just this one rule."
young airmen: "what's that?"
ryan: "It takes two Yeses and one No"
young airmen: "huh? Whaddya mean by that?"
ryan: "Well, whatever decision you make, if it effects the both of you, use this rule, two Yeses and one No. "
... 5 minutes later of head scratching and thinking ....
young airmen with an enlightened look on their faces: "Aaaahh...."
I do think it is a good rule of thumb. I don't know when this rule was "enforced", but that has been the way we operate... It works incredibly well because it made both of us involved in the decision-making process, and that we are EQUALLY important in deciding what's okay and what's not.
I love my man.
My man told me that couple of young guys in his bay have been chatting with him about the problems they are facing with their girlfriends back home.
ryan: "well, in our household, we have just this one rule."
young airmen: "what's that?"
ryan: "It takes two Yeses and one No"
young airmen: "huh? Whaddya mean by that?"
ryan: "Well, whatever decision you make, if it effects the both of you, use this rule, two Yeses and one No. "
... 5 minutes later of head scratching and thinking ....
young airmen with an enlightened look on their faces: "Aaaahh...."
I do think it is a good rule of thumb. I don't know when this rule was "enforced", but that has been the way we operate... It works incredibly well because it made both of us involved in the decision-making process, and that we are EQUALLY important in deciding what's okay and what's not.
I love my man.

