Ask not what your nation can do for you?
I just got back from the Red River Gorge climbing with some new friends. Sam, my usual climbing-mate, brought 2 of her Brazilian friends to introduce them to climbing. They are such nice people! I want to go to Brazil one day to see how beautiful it is. Sam says that Hawaii reminds her of Brazil ... that's saying a lot about how great a place Brazil is.
And after she said that, I started missing Malaysia. In a lot of ways, KL has a great personality. The city is not only beautiful, but the people are really friendly too. I have not noticed this before, but after going home and being friendly to a bunch of people, you notice that people will open up when you are open to them. In the past, I was really closed-minded thinking that KL-ites are really unfriendly and uneducated, but that's not true at all. I think the city has grown and matured a lot, kinda in the same way I have since I got to the US.
And in some ways, I'm really disgusted by the way US is treating immigrants. People who really love the US and who want to be permanent residents are put through a whole lot of hell just to go through the process. And oftentimes it's not a smooth process that just involves bureaucracy. I've heard that your application can go bust in any stage of the process ... even right at the end. Don't get me wrong ... I understand why a country like US has to put red tape like this in place. But they can do a lot more to make people more comfortable with the process. Immigrants have dreams and ambitions too ... we can't just be left hanging if everything falls apart. Did you know that if you lost your status, you would have only 10 days to leave the country?!
And just for that, I'm beginning to feel like the US isn't a place I'd feel at home. If a place feels like home, then I shouldn't feel so alienated and "2nd-classed" all the time. I want to live in a country who appreciates me for who I am and will welcome me openly for what I have to contribute.
I just got back from the Red River Gorge climbing with some new friends. Sam, my usual climbing-mate, brought 2 of her Brazilian friends to introduce them to climbing. They are such nice people! I want to go to Brazil one day to see how beautiful it is. Sam says that Hawaii reminds her of Brazil ... that's saying a lot about how great a place Brazil is.
And after she said that, I started missing Malaysia. In a lot of ways, KL has a great personality. The city is not only beautiful, but the people are really friendly too. I have not noticed this before, but after going home and being friendly to a bunch of people, you notice that people will open up when you are open to them. In the past, I was really closed-minded thinking that KL-ites are really unfriendly and uneducated, but that's not true at all. I think the city has grown and matured a lot, kinda in the same way I have since I got to the US.
And in some ways, I'm really disgusted by the way US is treating immigrants. People who really love the US and who want to be permanent residents are put through a whole lot of hell just to go through the process. And oftentimes it's not a smooth process that just involves bureaucracy. I've heard that your application can go bust in any stage of the process ... even right at the end. Don't get me wrong ... I understand why a country like US has to put red tape like this in place. But they can do a lot more to make people more comfortable with the process. Immigrants have dreams and ambitions too ... we can't just be left hanging if everything falls apart. Did you know that if you lost your status, you would have only 10 days to leave the country?!
And just for that, I'm beginning to feel like the US isn't a place I'd feel at home. If a place feels like home, then I shouldn't feel so alienated and "2nd-classed" all the time. I want to live in a country who appreciates me for who I am and will welcome me openly for what I have to contribute.
I came home today after work and found a sticky note on my door from UPS saying that they left a package at my apt club house because I wasn't at home to receive it. Turned out that one of my best friend and one that I've known the longest (way back since 1st grade!) 